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Q1: i have been with my partner for 3 years i do love him but the sex slowed down recently. mainly due to working opposite ends of the day. but the other night he came home with another woman, claiming she was a traveller with no where to stay, i made it clear since i didn't know her she couldn't stay, i didnt want to waken up robbed. the excuses rolled on but in the end i made her leave.only to find out when a friend had texted asking where he was he claimed he was in bed with a french girl, and guess what she was french.he was the most wasted i have ever seen him and in my heart of hearts i want to believe he wasn't going to cheat in our home with me in the next room, but it sounds like the intention was there.also he has cheated on lots of women before myself, although a lot younger. how do i get past this? A

Q2: i never cum when i make love with my boyfriend...n fact i've never cum with any of my boyfriends. When im using my vibrator i do n my boyfriend is not bad n bed n we hav a lot of chemistry. i feel completley comfortable with him. is there sumthin wrong with me?

Q3: i really like this guy at the moment he is a couple of years older not much but i really want to show him a good time this weekend do you know of any sex games we colud play or even tease games ?

Q4: i have never given a blow job before how do men like this done

Q5: my boyfriend and i have been together 7 months nw and have always had close relationship and great sex. recently though i have felt really self conscious about sex and often just want to go asleep. i look forward to seeing him all week but when we get together i freeze up. i dont get it as i am still attracted to him and he always compliments me. what can i do to get my sex drive back? i feel so numb sometimes :-( im scared it will ruine us.

Q6: how do i get my husband to accept a threesome without getting embarrased?